需要掌握的現(xiàn)代社交禮儀
在現(xiàn)在全球化里，國與國之間的交流越來越密切，相對的各國之間的交際禮儀也有所不同，以下內(nèi)容是應(yīng)屆畢業(yè)生小編整理的需要掌握的現(xiàn)代社交禮儀，希望可以幫到大家!
Debrett's guide to modern dilemmas: kissing, e-cigarettes and doing make-up on the tube
你應(yīng)該掌握的現(xiàn)代社交禮儀
For nearly 250 years, it has advised the British public on the finer points of social etiquette, from how to write a thank you note to what to do when one meets the Queen.
250年來，英國權(quán)威禮儀指導(dǎo)機(jī)構(gòu)德布雷特出版社一直給英國民眾提供了得體的社交禮儀細(xì)節(jié)上的指導(dǎo)，包括怎么寫一封合適的感謝信，見到女王應(yīng)該做些什么等。
Now, Debrett’s has lifted the lid on its very modern guide to good manners for the first time, disclosing the questions that most trouble the British public in 2014.
據(jù)英國《每日電訊報(bào)》10月28日報(bào)道，近日，德布雷特出版社首次公布現(xiàn)代社會的社交禮儀，解答2014年最困擾英國民眾的社交禮儀上的問題。
1使用手機(jī)
Mobile phone use
Debrett’s receive more enquiries about mobile use than any other device. According to Debrett’s, it is always rude to pay more attention to a phone than a person in the flesh, and they should always be put away when transacting other business – for example, when you're paying for something in a shop. They should be switched off in theatres, cinemas (including during the trailers!), art galleries, or any space where silence is desired.
德布雷特出版社收到最多的是詢問手機(jī)使用的問題。出版社指出，在與人交流時(shí)，總是低頭關(guān)注手機(jī)是非常粗魯無禮的行為。在有些場合，比如在店里結(jié)賬時(shí)，手機(jī)最好擱置在一旁。特別是在一些需要保持安靜的場所比如劇場、電影院(即使是在放片花的時(shí)候)和藝術(shù)畫廊，都應(yīng)該關(guān)閉手機(jī)。
2工作時(shí)吸電子煙
Smoking e-cigarettes at work
As electronic cigarettes become more popular, so to do the number of enquiries that Debrett’s receive on the device. The most pressing question is whether they are acceptable in the workplace. According to Debrett’s they should never be used in a work environment. Vaping shows that you’re not focused on your work and may also be a distraction to your colleagues.
如今，電子煙越來越流行，因此，關(guān)于在工作時(shí)吸電子煙的問題也比較多，在工作場合能否吸電子煙是人們最想知道的。對此，出版社回應(yīng)稱，不應(yīng)該在工作場合吸煙。吸電子煙表示你沒有專心工作，而且也會令其他同事工作分心。
3接吻禮
Social greeting: kissing
Many people are clearly unclear on the subject of social kissing. According to Debrett’s, kissing is not appropriate in many professional situations. On the whole it should only be used among friends, but not on first meeting. An air kiss, without contact, may seem rude or impersonal, so very slight contact is best but no sound effects are needed.
很多人都不清楚在什么情況下應(yīng)該行接吻禮，出版社作出了解答。接吻禮在很多專業(yè)性場合都不適用�？傮w上來說，在親密朋友中比較常用，而對初次見面的朋友不適用。沒有肢體接觸的飛吻看起來比較無禮或沒有人情味，所以最好有輕微的肢體接觸，但不需要發(fā)出聲音。
4在公共交通上吃東西或者補(bǔ)妝
Eating and applying make-up on public transport
Debrett’s has been inundated with enquiries as to whether it’s acceptable to eat or apply make-up on public transport. According to Debrett’s you should avoid both. It’s inconsiderate to eat smelly food in a confined environment, and applying make-up on public transport can jeopardise that all-important first impression and make you appear disorganised.
出版社也收到很多人詢問在公共交通上是否可以吃東西或補(bǔ)妝。對此，出版社稱都應(yīng)避免。在密閉環(huán)境中食用味道比較大的食物是不體諒他人的行為，而在公共交通上補(bǔ)妝，把自己亂糟糟的一面展現(xiàn)給他人，會損壞自己給他人的第一印象。
5乘機(jī)時(shí)把座椅靠背往后仰
Reclining your seat on aeroplanes
This is a common bugbear. According to Debrett’s, it's selfish to recline your seat back during short daytime flights. When travelling by plane always stay within your own designated space and don't hog the armrest. Also avoid kicking the back of the seat in front of you or using it as an aid to standing-up.
這個(gè)問題很常見。出版社明確回應(yīng)稱，白天乘坐短途航班時(shí)把座椅靠背往后仰是自私的行為。在乘坐乘機(jī)旅行時(shí)，還有以下注意點(diǎn)：呆在自己特定的位置，不要占著扶手;不要踢你前面的座椅，或者扶著你前面的座椅站起來。
6在公共交通上讓座
Giving up your seat on public transport
In a recent university experiment only 20 per cent of London tube passengers offered to give up their seat to a visibly pregnant woman. According to Debrett’s, passengers should always offer to give up their seat to any individual that is pregnant, elderly, or clearly in need. It is important to remember, however, that it is just as rude to aggressively decline the offer of a seat as it is to not offer a seat.
某大學(xué)的倫敦最近的實(shí)驗(yàn)顯示，只有20%的倫敦地鐵乘客會給孕婦讓座。毫無疑問，出版社的`回答是應(yīng)該給老弱病殘?jiān)谢蛴行枰某丝妥屪�。而且，還應(yīng)當(dāng)記住的是，好勝地拒絕別人的讓座也是無禮的行為。
7暗抄送
Blind copying (bcc)
Debrett’s receive a high level of enquiries on best business practice. The most commonly asked question is whether it is ever right to blind copy (bcc) someone into an email. According to Debrett’s, blind copying should be used discerningly as it is deceptive to the primary recipient. Instead, the email should be forwarded on to the third party, with a short note explaining any confidentiality, after its distribution.
商務(wù)實(shí)踐中的禮節(jié)也是民眾非常關(guān)心的問題，其中最普遍的即在發(fā)送郵件時(shí)是否可以使用暗抄送。出版社指出，對于原始收件人來說，發(fā)件人使用暗抄送是對收件人的隱瞞跟欺騙，因此應(yīng)該謹(jǐn)慎使用。正確的做法是郵件發(fā)送完畢后再將郵件轉(zhuǎn)發(fā)給第三方，并附上一小段文字，解釋郵件中的內(nèi)容的機(jī)密性。
If blind copying is essential – i.e. for a confidential document where all recipients must remain anonymous – then the sender should address the email to themselves, and everyone else as ‘bcc’ recipients.
如果一定要暗抄送，比如，要發(fā)送機(jī)密文件，接受者必須匿名時(shí)，那么發(fā)送者可以使用暗抄送。
3在所有人就坐前用餐
Eating before everyone is served
The final question is one that we’ve all asked ourselves: is it rude to start eating at the table before everyone else has been served? According to Debrett’s the simple answer is yes, unless the host or hostess gives their permission for diners to start.
最后一個(gè)問題也是我們需要自省的問題：在所有人沒有全部就坐前用餐是無禮的嗎?答案當(dāng)然是：是的。除非主人宣布可以就餐，否則不可提前用餐。
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