и (tng)иԇռеıܴڂ俼^(gu)УҪM(fi)^(gu)ĕr(sh)gcСҪͬW(xu)(li)и (tng)“R”ķ҂һ(li)!
1. (tng)(xi)
Ҫf(shu)ʲô“ (tng)”“ٶ̫”!ÿһƪ (tng)(xi) (tng)һεЧh(yun)h(yun)~~vи (tng)}ģMֹÁ(li)x}Á(li) (tng)(xi)(x)Ǖ(hu)°빦!
(tng)(xi)ǰĜ(zhn)乤ܺ(jin)öC(j)_(ki)һ(g)հęnȻͿԜ(zhn)\(yn)(dng)ĴXָ(dng)ȻϲgüP (tng)(xi)ҲȫԼ(x)T(li)^(gu) (tng)ĕr(sh)߀혱㾚IPֵٶȣ(du)(zhn)иϙC(j)ԇnj(xi)r(sh)ĴٶҲǷdzЎģ^һeɵÆ!
(tng)(xi)^(gu)̲һλ҂Ŀ(bio)ǰÿԒÿ(g)ֶ_،(xi)(li)Ҫ(f) (tng)
A. (tng)һɱ
ǧf(wn)Ҫһρ(li)ͼ(dng)Pļ (tng)(xi)һ (tng)҂΄(w)ӛסеă(ni)ݣǓ (tng)Ďׂ(g)~ӛ(li)Ҫу(ni) (tng)^(gu)ץס(ni)ݴˌ(du)Ԓ֮и (tng)زc(din)W(xu)g(sh)vCϿZ(y);Cό(xi)еҲHHճô(jin)ΣԹӛסֻƬZ(y)DzI(lng)(hu)ȫƪĴ߉Y(ji)(gu) (tng)ĵһ
B. (tng)(xi)
ڶҪ_(ki)ʼ (tng)(xi)һ(li)f(shu) (tng)һ䌑(xi)һ (tng)A(ch)^Ҳ߅ (tng)߅(xi)(dng)Ȼ߅ (tng)߅(xi)(du) (tng)ҪDZ^ߵ“ݔ”“ݔ”ͬr(sh)M(jn)пǷdz(zhn)Ե!(du)(sh)ͬW(xu)(li)f(shu)߀ǽh (tng)һͣ(xi) (tng)һ䡣 (tng)߲_ĵطԵȥ (tng)(dng)Ȼʹõǜ(d)ҵ (tng)(xi)ƽ_(ti)߀ʹóNĵď(f)xŶ!
C. ˌ(du)ԭ
Kڰһ (tng)(xi)(li)Xָc(din)ƣ˰?^(gu)҂΄(w)߀](mi)ˌ(du)𰸵^(gu)ҲdzҪ!҂Ԍ(du)ԭütɫe(cu)ĵطҳԼc(din)——DZy?e(cu)`?߀dž~ƴ(xi)©?֮ﲻ(hu)a(b)(du)YˎP(gun)I!
D. ߀](mi)нY(ji)Ŷ~
䌍(sh) (tng)(xi)ˡCC߀Dz“ե”ϵһ֠I(yng)B(yng)IJT!S (tng)xģZ(y)Z(y){(dio)߀^m(x)ֲеZ(y)c(din)~RZ(y)֪R(sh)һNի@ø!
2. Pӛvs.X
ڿԇ^(gu)o(w)Փ (tng)}߀ǾC}е (tng)֣^(gu)th(yun)ҪPӛ@λСѸP(gun)ϵ!P(gun)Ӗ(xn)Pӛķ䌍(sh)ܶܶ࣬ϜһѾCCͲ_!
^(gu)ڴҪѴeעPӛmҲҪ^(gu)هŶ?yn)õ?tng)߽^ڹPӛ!eO (tng)(active listening)õķ^“eO” (tng)(dng)Ⲣӛס (tng)Ϣ(g)Ϣc(din)֮gP(gun)ϵ÷^X(li) (tng)(x)һ̶Ⱥ߀A(y)y(c)漴 (tng)ă(ni)!@ӵ (tng)Դ^XӛϢ?yn)Ϣѽ?jng)һ߉[XҪӛPӛĵطҲ̓HһЩP(gun)I~~(sh)֮ˡPӛһ(yu)(sh)֮}r(sh)ھCϿZ(y)͌(xi)֜(zhn)f(shu)͌(xi)r(sh)ʡȥܶxPӛP(gun)ϵĕr(sh)gʡָЧŶ!
ǧf(wn)Ҫ(du)ԼXʧȥ!eO (tng)(x)һҲ˦Pӛ~
3. (tng)
ƽr(sh)҂ľ(x)o(w)Փ (tng)x߀ (tng)(xi)䌍(sh)Ǿ (tng)һһ䶼Ҫ(li)м(x)о˾ (tng)֮һķ (tng)ҲǺк̎ģԎڱ^ɵĠB(ti)“ĥ”(dng)Ȼ@(g)“”ָDz}ĿđB(ti)ϱ^pɣҲf(shu)ȫ^(gu)^(gu)́GǷN (tng)IJҲҪ҂eOȥ䌍(sh)f(shu)ú(jin)һc(din)eϾr(sh)J(rn) (tng)ЩӰҕҪ(x)־䣬ֻǷN“ (tng)” (tng)Ԏ҂Z(y)ڲ֪X(ju)о͕(hu)(du)ӢZ(y)a(chn)HϤ@ӵDz֪X(ju)һΕr(sh)g(li)Ҳܿ@M(jn)Ŷ!
и (tng)“R”?F(xin)֪ˆ?ϣă(ni)܉?q)ҵČW(xu)(x)!