傾聽的力量英語(yǔ)演講稿
listening is an active skill. whereas hearing is passive, listening is something that we have to work at. its a
relationship with sound. and yet its a skill that none of us are taught. for example, have you ever considered that there are listening positions, places you can listen from? here are two of them. reductive listening is listening for. it reduces
everything down to whats relevant and it discards everything thats not relevant. men typically listen reductively. so hes saying, ive got this problem. hes saying, heres your solution. thanks very much. next. thats the way we talk, right guys? expansive listening, on the other hand, is listening with, not listening for. its got no destination in mind. its just enjoying the journey. women typically listen expansively. if you look at these two, eye contact, facing each other,
possibly both talking at the same time. men, if you get nothing else out of this talk, practice expansive listening, and you can transform your relationships.
認(rèn)真傾聽是一種主動(dòng)技能。普通地聽是被動(dòng)的，而傾聽卻是要花功夫的。傾聽是處理聲音與聲音之間的關(guān)系。它也是一種與生俱來的能力。比如，你考慮過傾聽也有不同的姿勢(shì)，以便你接收聲音嗎？看以下兩個(gè)例子。刪減性的傾聽是有“選擇”的聽。它會(huì)只關(guān)注你想要知道的東西，而忽略無(wú)關(guān)緊要的內(nèi)容。男人通常會(huì)刪減性的傾聽。比如一個(gè)人說：“我有個(gè)問題�！绷硪粋�(gè)人說：“這是你的答案。多謝。下一位�！边@就是我們談話的方式，對(duì)吧，男士們？ 而另外一種，擴(kuò)展性的傾聽是“無(wú)目的”，“無(wú)選擇”的。聽你腦海里并沒有明確的目標(biāo)而只是享受聽的過程。女人通常會(huì)擴(kuò)展性的傾聽�？纯催@兩位，面對(duì)面，保持眼神交流，可能兩人同時(shí)都在說話。男士們，如果你們談話時(shí)覺得索然無(wú)味，試試擴(kuò)展性的傾聽，或許可以改善你們的關(guān)系。
第一大嚴(yán)重的健康問題，根據(jù)murray schafer的話說，就是“幻聽”。這是一種錯(cuò)亂，使你看到的和聽到的并不一致。所以，我們的生活中，就多了一些不在我們身邊的人發(fā)出的聲音。我認(rèn)為時(shí)時(shí)處于“幻聽”中對(duì)健康十分不利。 與濫用耳機(jī)相伴而來的第二個(gè)問題是壓縮音樂。我們壓縮音樂，以便能裝進(jìn)口袋，然而也付出了代價(jià)。聽聽這個(gè)，是一段沒有壓縮的音樂。同樣的一段音樂，但卻少了98%的信息。我希望至少有一部分人能聽出其中的差別。這就是壓縮音樂的代價(jià)。為了補(bǔ)上丟失的'信息，你很容易變得疲勞、煩躁。你需要通過想象來彌補(bǔ)這個(gè)空白。長(zhǎng)期下去，會(huì)對(duì)健康不利。 濫用耳機(jī)帶來的第三個(gè)問題是耳聾。
不談噪音了，我們來談?wù)勔恍┠銘?yīng)該去尋求的好朋友。風(fēng)水鳥：風(fēng)聲、水聲、鳥聲，大自然的聲音。它們都由各種不同的細(xì)節(jié)組成，對(duì)健康十分有好處，因?yàn)樗鼈兌际俏覀冞M(jìn)化過程中我們陪伴我們的聲音。尋求這些聲音吧，對(duì)你們有好處。還有這個(gè)。安靜是美好的。古人曾把語(yǔ)言比作修飾過的安靜。我建議你們刻意地遠(yuǎn)離安靜，去設(shè)計(jì)像藝術(shù)品一樣有畫面感的聲音。有前景，有背景，并且比例協(xié)調(diào)。設(shè)計(jì)聲音是很有趣的，如果自己不會(huì)做的話，可以找專業(yè)人士幫忙。聲音設(shè)計(jì)就是未來，也是一種讓世界變得好聽的方法。
and four modalities where you need to take some action and get involved. first of all, listen consciously. i hope that after this talk youll be doing that. its a whole new dimension to your life and its wonderful to have that dimension. secondly, get in touch with making some sound. create sound. the voiceis the instrument we all play, and yet how many of us are
trained in using our voice? get trained. learn to sing. learn to play an instrument. musicians have bigger brains. its true. you can do this in groups as well. its a fantastic antidote to schizophonia. to make music and sound in a group of people,
whichever style you enjoy particularly. and lets take a
stewarding role for the sound around us. protect your ears? yes, absolutely. design soundscapes to be beautiful around you at home and at work. and lets start to speak up when people are assailing us with the noise that i played you early on.
還有四種方法需要你采取行動(dòng)參與其中。首先專心地聽。我希望在我的講話過后你們就能去這樣做。這會(huì)是你們?nèi)松碌�、美好的一面。第二試著自己弄出點(diǎn)聲響。創(chuàng)造聲音。聲音是我們都會(huì)使用的樂器，但多少人接受訓(xùn)練學(xué)會(huì)利用我們自己的聲音？嘗試訓(xùn)練一下吧。學(xué)著歌唱。學(xué)習(xí)演奏一種樂器。音樂家都有更發(fā)達(dá)的大腦，這話不假。也可以嘗試和大家一起這樣做。這是緩解幻聽的非常好的辦法。和一大群人創(chuàng)造音樂是，任何你喜歡的方式都是不錯(cuò)的。讓我們主宰周圍的聲音。保護(hù)聽力？這是當(dāng)然的。不管在家里，還是工作中，設(shè)計(jì)并創(chuàng)作出好聽的聲音。當(dāng)有人用我之前播過的噪音來攻擊我們的時(shí)候，讓我們大聲地給予它們還擊。
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